Who You Are
You’re a pillar of strengthYou’re a man with a very balanced personality and lifestyle. You believe in making room in life to relax, think, and have fun. You refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it’s expected of you. Love is the same way. You know what real love feels like and you’ll accept no imitations! You’re honest, straightforward, and have lots of common sense. Because you don’t “wear your heart on your sleeve” doesn’t mean you lack deep feelings. In fact, you’re deeply committed to your loved ones and the causes you believe in. Men as truly balanced as you are very rare.
What’s dating all about to you?Finding a loving relationship is a mission for you. You have clear goals and even a timeline in mind. Falling in love is an especially magical experience. You’re suddenly free from the rules and thinking that guide your life. You usually keep your feelings and life under control. But remember, the bigger the dam, the bigger the flood when it breaks!
You face two major challenges in finding the love of your life. First, because your mind is so busy making sure you say and do the right things on dates, it’s hard for your deeper and caring self to come through. It feels risky to share this part of yourself but most women need this emotional connection. Second, although having a vision of what you want can be helpful, the risk is that your high standards and rush to find the perfect woman can get in the way of loving a real-life imperfect woman.
Quirks women noticeLike all men, you have your strengths as well as your quirks and shortcomings. Ultimately, you want to find someone who will love and accept you “warts and all.” Though you have lots of friends, it’s important to have at least one person who understands.
- You have such a positive attitude that at times your upbeat mood may irritate those who think you’re “too happy” or aren’t taking problems seriously.
Do women like your type?Notice that 95% of women are generally attracted to your personality type. 82% say they are VERY attracted. With the millions of people on Match.com, that translates into lots of potential matches.
Who You’re Looking For
She’ll be an enigmaYou’re looking for a woman who’s a natural leader. She’s smart, insightful, and willing to fight for what she believes in. You’ll soon learn that she’s a woman you can respect and count on to do what she says. She lives a very ordered and busy life, since she’s always juggling her career, family and friends, and her involvement in community or social causes. Yet, she’ll still make room for you in her life. You can be each other’s escape from the ideas, pressures, and deadlines of each day.
Opposites sometimes attractYou want to share your life with someone who has the same values, goals, and style you have. Research has shown that couples who have more in common tend to stay together longer. Still, sometimes differences can help create a “spark” and excitement about each other. Part of you wants to be more like her, or at least have her unique style in your life. She could be good for you in many ways:
- Because her eyes are always on the future, she can help you plan ahead and get excited about goals without being bogged down in day-to-day practicalities.